Something to keep in mind is that attractive women and perfect tens are approached all the time, when they go out at night they’re approached, when they go out during the day they’re approached even when they’re doing the grocery shopping guess what … yes you got it … they’re approached by men.
So the result is that these VERY attractive women (perfect 10s) will give their phone number out to a lot men that approach them, sometimes they will give their phone number out just to get rid of them.
As perfect 10s are call girls in islamabad approached so often there’s no way they can date every guy that talked to them so they’ll pigeon hole guys into the ‘average guy’ category and dismiss you or ‘flake’ on you if they think that’s better.
To them you’re just another guy … another ‘average’ guy until you’ve conveyed otherwise.
Notice what I just said … “until you’ve conveyed otherwise” … This isn’t about proving yourself to her, or winning he approval or earning browning points … that is what EVERY other guy is trying to do … it’s about communicating who you are and conveying strength in character.
These VERY attarctive women want strong men, not strong in the sense as muscular I mean strong in character. The these perfect 10’s date are men who know who they are, their purpose, they rarely question themselves (sometimes they’re arrogant) and they’re persistent.
Most importantly is they “understand the lives of these hot girls”. They know what it must be like to walk through the world as a hot maniquen doll and have guys dote on you and buy you anything you want.
Knowing even a little how these girls walk through life is an important skill to have as it makes you realise how you should NOT act when you’re around them otherwise in a split second you’ll be discounted as just another average guy.
Some women get an ego hit from all these guys calling them, sad but true huh. Some of these very attractive women have low self esteem and like it when guys call when they’re around their girl friends, have you ever heard this before:
“oh my god .. it’s that guy calling again .. I gave my phone number out to get rid of him and he keeps calling me … what a loser”
Some women are like this.
However it’s a good sign they’re not answering their phone as would this be the kind of girl you want to be around anyway?
The fact is that attractive women have options, if she’s a ten then she’ll definitely have options.
She’ll have high status guys calling them, good looking guys swooning them however after awhile attractive women always yearn for a challenge …
They want men to challenge the, tease them, treat them like a normal girl, joke with them on the same level and to not be afraid or intimidated by her looks.
This is very important. A lot of guys hold back when they’re intimated by a girls looks and they hold back of lot of GOOD conversation and jokes that would help them either get a phone number/date or get her to the bedroom. This is self-sabotage.
The task at hand is to be better than her other options. The worst thing you can do is act like you’re competing for her … no this will ruin the opportunity as she’ll sense that and know she has more cards to play and you want her more and are willing to compete for her against other guys.
Instead you should do the opposite. You should push her away in a funny way and act like you have other options more appealing than her. NEVER say this though just sub-communicate it.
*** You can do this by not answering the phone every time she calls;
*** When she calls let it ring a little and then say “heya I’m in the middle of something now so you’ll have to be quick what’s up”;
*** When you call and have to leave a message DON’T leave a long message always leave a short VAGUE message like ” Hey it’s me … give me a call back when you get this … I’m in and out all day so you can try to reach me, if you don’t I’ll talk to you later anyway”
Never say your name (she will have caller ID with your name saved in her phone already), don’t remind her where you met her, say to her to give YOU a call back now most women won’t do this (some will) but most won’t however it doesn’t matter it still gives you more cards to play and you’re sub communicating you are a bust man with other options.
What is flaking and why do women do it?
Women will flake on you when you make plans with them. This happens to most men, including me sometimes. It is in their nature to test to see whether you’ll accept it. A real man who has other options will not accept this behavior and would call her on it, he would do this not in some abusive way he’ll always do it in a funny way (but firm).
“Heya, seeming as you flaked on me yesterday you can take me out, here’s my address pick me up tonight at 8pm”
Powerful huh …
Never accept behavior from an attractive woman that you wouldn’t ordinarily accept from a not-so-attractive woman.